Memory, Pain, Dignity — and Renewed Meaning in the Shadow of This Time
By Tami Lancut Leibovit | Master of Manners
More than eight decades have passed since the Holocaust, that human catastrophe in which six million Jews were murdered simply for being Jewish. Yet with time, memory does not fade. On the contrary, it takes on new meaning in every generation, a new language, and at times a new kind of pain. The Holocaust is not only a chapter in Jewish history; it is a moral, human, and universal test, and a constant reminder of what can happen when hatred, dehumanization, and indifference take hold of society.
In Israel, Holocaust Martyrs’ and Heroes’ Remembrance Day is not just another date on the calendar. It is a day of pause. A day on which the entire country gathers into silence, remembrance, and reflection. The siren, the ceremonies, the testimonies, the names of the murdered, the photographs, the songs, and the flags at half-mast are not merely symbols. They are a shared language of memory for an entire people. Yad Vashem, the world center for Holocaust remembrance, once again holds the state opening ceremony in Jerusalem, alongside many additional commemorative events for the public.
The world, too, marks the memory of the Holocaust. In 2005, the United Nations General Assembly designated January 27 as International Holocaust Remembrance Day, and the first observance took place in 2006. The date was chosen because it marks the liberation of Auschwitz-Birkenau, and it has since become an international symbol of remembrance, education, and the struggle against antisemitism. The UN theme for 2026, “Holocaust Remembrance for Dignity and Human Rights,” reflects the enduring universal relevance of Holocaust memory.
But this year in Israel is not an ordinary one.
Since October 7, Israeli society has been living through a reality of loss, anxiety, national pain, the struggle for life, the absence of loved ones, wounded communities, and many families carrying ongoing grief. It is not the same thing, and the events must not be conflated. The Holocaust is a singular historical event, without precedent, with its own unique meaning. And yet this year, Holocaust Remembrance Day meets an Israeli public that is more wounded, more alert, and more sensitive to questions of existence, identity, belonging, memory, and future.
That is why it seems that this year Yom HaShoah will be marked in Israel not only מתוך historical duty, but also מתוך a deep emotional need. Many will listen this year to the testimony of survivors, to the stories of the ghettos, to accounts of loss and heroism, with hearts that are even more open. Not because history is repeating itself in the same way, but because a wounded people listens differently to words such as fear, displacement, loss, survival, and hope.
For that very reason, precision matters.
The uniqueness of Holocaust Remembrance Day must be respected. It must not be used as a hasty comparison for every contemporary tragedy, nor should the boundaries of history be blurred. Memory requires responsibility. In its deepest sense, dignity begins here: in the ability to distinguish, to be precise, not to exaggerate, and not to take away from one tragedy its uniqueness in the name of another pain. At the same time, it is both natural and legitimate to acknowledge that the Israeli heart arrives at this day more burdened, more sensitive, and at times more broken.
In Israel, Yom HaShoah is observed on the 27th of Nisan, one week after Passover. According to state custom, places of entertainment close on the eve of the day, and the following morning a two-minute memorial siren is sounded, during which the entire country comes to a halt. Ceremonies take place across the country, schools devote the day to Holocaust remembrance, the media changes its tone, and the public sphere takes on a quieter, heavier, and more respectful character.
There is something rare about this day: a sense of national solidarity that does not depend on opinion, age, lifestyle, or ideology. The siren still stops roads, markets, offices, and homes. It reminds us that despite all disagreements, there are still moments in which the entire nation remembers together. It is one of the few moments when silence itself becomes a public language.
And as the years pass and the number of Holocaust survivors continues to decline, the responsibility of carrying memory forward becomes even sharper. Ceremonies, journeys, films, testimony, name-reading projects, Holocaust education in schools, and the documentation of life stories are not only gestures toward the past; they are commitments to the future. Yad Vashem continues its public projects of remembrance and name recovery, as part of the ongoing effort to preserve the faces and names of the victims and not leave them as numbers alone.
In terms of conduct, manners, and public behavior, Yom HaShoah asks something simple yet profound of us: respect.
Respect for the moment. Respect for memory. Respect for survivors. Respect for stories. Respect for silence.
This is not a day for cynicism, unnecessary noise, or performative behavior. It is a day to slow down, to listen, to read, to remember, and to make space for children and young people to ask, understand, and feel.
And when the siren sounds this year, perhaps more than ever, we will stand not only out of civic habit, but מתוך an understanding that memory is not only a look backward. Memory is also responsibility for the future — responsibility to preserve what is human, moral, and sensitive, and the ability of a society not to grow accustomed to pain, not to lose compassion, and not to forget.
Because on this day, more than on any other, we are not only remembering those who are gone.
We are asking what kind of people we wish to be.
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